So here's the update! I ordered something 'similar' to a Levenger Laplander from Ebay - big mistake. The thing arrived and it was packaged well but the product was just cheapo and the 'pillow' part underneath the wood surface was uncomfortable styrofoam, very thin and became uncomfortable quickly and had a silky fabric that made it slide around on my lap. So I returned it (with a 25% restocking fee that was never mentioned in the disclaimer, my mistake for not asking ahead about returns).
Anyway, I kept looking locally and on-line and still came back to the Levenger Laplander sooooo, I bit the bullet and coughed up the cash. I ordered the large one ($48! $9 shipping) in February, and it was on back order until April 10th!! Well, it arrived early and got here yesterday. It's made very well: sturdy cherry top with a foam cushion (feels almost like the Nasa/Tempurpedic foam but it isn't) that's covered in a nice red, breathable cloth fabric. It's Velcroed to the wood - securely so there's no movement and feels fine after even an hour of reading with the weight of a 500+ page book. I got the larger one as I like a bigger surface and normally write on full size pads - I like a bit a breathing room

It's got the two elastic straps at the top to hold pens, papers, whatever while you are working (hubby likes it as well as he can place his bookmark under one strap while we're reading in bed). It provides a wonderful flat surface for writing - tried it out this morning for that purpose and had no problems writing with the stub or cursive either with my legs flat or with my knees up. I can see using this on the couch as well. I'm really happy I got it and hope I use it as much as I think I'm going to - time will tell
Check them out at www.levenger.com (no affiliation, etc.) The wood top ones come in 2 sizes and 2 colors, and they now make a 'lighter' version of the smaller one with a white top (plastic?) and 3 colors for the fabric.
Edit: typos and such