With all the concern about the laxness of cursive teaching in schools nowadays, I'm feeling more and more like a relic... and I'm only 20 years old.
I went to a parochial school from K-7, and public school from 7-12. From what I have found about cursive forms on google, my cursive is some kind of mix between modernized Palmer and Zaner-Bloser. I am now a student in university and still use a lot of cursive, mainly for speed (lots of notes and essay exams). I'd say my cursive has never been or will be "girly", in the sense of aesthetically pleasing loopy handwriting, and I have what I like to call "spiky letter syndrome", when the letters m, n, i, and u, when found near each other, tend to end up being a series of messy spikes making it difficult to distinguish between letters. When I write words like "minimum" I have to count the number of bumps to figure out where to dot the i's.
My mother started me on letter forms the summer between first and second grade. All the letters tended toward vertical, but I seemed to get the hang of the basic form.



We formally began learning cursive in school beginning second grade. The most difficult thing for me was to get my r's consistent with those tricky bumps.

Third grade, from some poem I copied over for a project:

Fourth grade, my cursive underwent some kind of drastic change of which I'm still not sure how exactly it happened. It became much smaller and more cramped. Forth grade was also when teachers began docking off points if you didn't use cursive. I remember a lot of complaining about this, although I didn't mind in the least.

Fifth grade was more of the same cramped style. I seemed to have started to dot my exclamation points with circles...

Sixth grade, my cursive opened up and letters were slightly taller. But the spiky letters became a permanent fixture from here on out.

Seventh grade was when my family moved and I began attending public school. I had begun to despise parochial school anyway so this actually made me happy. When I started public school I was perplexed as to why noone else used cursive. Other kids told me that they had been taught cursive, but noone made them use it and most of them preferred print. They actually thought my handwriting was insanely neat. Which was strange, because my handwriting was considered messy back in parochial school. I guess everything's relative.
My first week in public school I had written up for a group project to be read to the class, and the vapid girl who was supposed to read it actually couldn't read cursive. In retrospect, she was rather dim, but I had spent extra time making sure it was really neat (to show off) and I was flabbergasted that there were people who couldn't even read cursive, let alone write in it.
Seventh grade was also when I took to dotting my i's with little circles in an attempt to make my writing more girly. This was also when my preference transitioned from pencil to pen (ballpoint and rollerball. I really liked anything with a see through ink view window). This sample appears to be a purple RSVP pen.

Eighth grade still had the ridiculous circles. This sample was one of my first in-class essay exams, so this was at or near full speed. This pen was either a Pilot Precise or a Sanford Onyx.

Ninth grade the circles finally went away. My style finally seemed to begin to gel, as the changes from year to year are beginning to be less drastic. This is some sort of generic blue ballpoint.

Tenth grade, the style continues to be consistent. Another essay exam, so this was at or near full speed as well.

I received my first fountain pen for my 17th birthday. Black Waterman Phileas, medium nib, Florida Blue cartridges. One of my first assignments using a fountain pen. (I *really* despised The Scarlet Letter. The fun of writing with the fountain pen may have been the only thing to get me through the unit.)

And finally, my cursive from today. Blue book essay exam from "14th" grade; this definitely was at full speed. Same pen and ink as above.

In terms of occurence of cursive and fountain pens, I'd say that cursive is still used by at least 1/4 of the people I've seen around in lectures, but I have no idea how accurate that is or not. I have never seen anyone other than myself (both students and professors) using fountain pens, however.
My brother is four years my junior and he does not use cursive at all, despite the efforts of my mother and myself. Our move meant he entered public school in the third grade, and it seems the basics were "taught", but the use of cursive was never enforced, and most kids reverted to print. His print is okay, his cursive very awkward. I even tried to get him on fountain pens, to no avail. However, I've seen the cursive of people my own age worse than my brother's, so I often wonder how much of the “cursive problem” can be attributed to the parochial vs. public aspect of schooling, and how much is due to technology.