I got the two sheets from R.Binder, and found that drawing large circles on the coarser one works well, with padding under it. As it gets smooth increase the pressure to wrap the film around as you push into the padding, so you don't get a flat chisel.
But the fine grade is giving me problems. I think I sharpen facets onto it? I can't tell what is happening, only that it doesn't get smooth, even when it feels smooth on the lapping film. It also scrapes the abrasive off the film rather than lapping nicely. I'm wondering if the soft padding does not work on this one?
Any suggestions, both for technique or for understanding what is going on physically at the tip?
--John