Then I discovered fountain pen websites and discussion forums and I've never been the same since!
I use all my pens regularly and don't consider myself a collector since most are decidedly "user" grade (but all write well!). On a related note I have, like many, a "revenue neutral" policy which given a new job (great upside but a bit of a haircut to take it), 3.5yo at home and another due early in the new year, is about all I can afford! Thankfully, unlike my other interest watches, there are some great writing pens that don't cost an arm and a leg and a new bottle of ink will make an old pen feel new again! So the watches have been distilled to 4 that I like and meet specific needs (or have sentimental value), and the pens have been narrowed around a few that I really use.
As also discussed here, I have been the recipient of some very kind gestures from other users and I will, as I progress through life and this hobby, continue that tradition and pass on some of the kindess that has been shown to me! As you can probably tell from my post my late father was a huge influence on me in many ways, and my passion for pens is but one thing he taught me. The other thing was that a small gesture has wide reaching ripples in the pond!
Regards,
Phil (aka HesNot).