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> Well I for one will not force anything on my children.
>
>If I was a tuba player would I have to create a 'war plan' to insure that all of my >children were also tuba players ...
No ... unless:
/1/ ... our culture required that all students learn to play *some* musical instrument (probably not a bad idea!),
AND
/2/ ... the school regarded only two instruments as acceptable to learn/use: bass drum until age 8, then an immediate switch to sitar: defining all other instruments as "not music"
AND
/3/ a substantial number of students could not do at all well with (could not even LIKE) the only two instruments the school regarded as "music," but liked very much and did very well with tuba which the school absolutely forbade ...
I think that, in such circumstances, the tuba-players *would* have to think in terms of war!
Read "ball-and-stick print" for "bass drum," read "conventional cursive" for "sitar," and read "handwriting" for "music" ... and you have the customary situation for handwriting in USA schools.
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> If you care too much about something it can only hurt you in the end.
What makes some degree of caring "too much"? "Too much" for/by what criterion?
As BillTheEditor says ...
> ... the school forces things on your children all the time. ... A kid can write
> perfectly legibly,
... and can write just-plain-*perfectly* (legibly, and fast, and attractively, too like that ex-British boy I mentioned, before they wrecked his writing) ...
> and yet suffer academic exile.
Case in point (with an American, not a Britisher, who'd learned Italic "the first time around")
one of the Amazon reviews of WRITE NOW (for the previous edition, not for the current one) comes from someone who learned Italic in first grade 30 years ago and got slammed for it a few years later when the family moved to another state where people had never heard of it ...
Amazon-comments by that survivor of school-based handwriting abuse:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/customer-reviews/...=R3W4YS1H83WT2L My response to his comments:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/customer-reviews/...=R2KM09GVOGUFKIRe:
> I think Kate is talking mainly about the inflexibility of school administrations.
Yes and, in particular, about how this affects handwriting. I have, in fact, survived a "school war" on handwriting which broke out during and in large part because of my presence at a school whose principal and academic director had arranged for me to re-vamp the handwriting-curriculum ... while almost 1/3 of the parents and teachers strongly preferred "real" handwriting instruction (as they called print-then-cursive), and the other 2/3 of the parents and teachers campaigned very actively to have absolutely no handwriting-instruction at all!
Though this story has a happy ending, getting to that ending took about a year of unbelievable efforts (by many people) against equally incredible obstacles. Let me know if you want to hear about *this* one ...
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>You want to see a war break out, try teaching your kid arithmetic calculation >methods that don't conform to whatever the local district has decreed to be >"correct."
I've seen an example of that. Some years back, I learned that a school had gotten kids in trouble for doing multiplication long-division problems *exactly* *the* *way* *their* *textbook* *told* *them* *too*. It turned out that, between one edition of the textbook and the next, the textbook-authors had slightly changed the presentation to make it easier to learn (putting the partial-results steps in different places on the page that sort of thing) but the teachers (like 95+% of elementary-school teachers in most subjects) hadn't opened the new textbooks when they got them: after all, they taught school, so obviously they already knew how to multiply and divide, and math doesn't change, right?
Going back to the subject at hand, teachers-not-checking-the-books can affect handwriting too. Within walking distance of my house, a public school has at least one teacher who actually punishes kids for following the handwriting textbooks she gives them because the current editions of the books don't match the handwriting wall-charts from the same publisher that she has had on her wall for 25 years. (The school won't buy new ones because "handwriting is handwriting, charts are charts you have a chart, you don't need another one" since "only" nine or ten years ago did the school start to get the new editions of the textbooks, with very definite differences in most cursive capitals and some other letters, the school still hasn't spent the money to provide the new wall-charts to go with the new books.)
Since this teacher literally won't open her teacher's edition manual (or look at the students' books she figures "handwriting is handwriting, and I KNOW handwriting because I am the teacher"), when kids follow the writing in the books right in front of them (instead of the writing on a faded wall-chart eight or nine feet above their eye-level), she deducts points from their grade in "language arts" (= English+reading+spelling+writing: this school makes handwriting 1/2 of a student's marks in that subject). She *also* deducts points if they ask: "Which way should I do this letter: the way it looks in the book, or the way it looks on the wall, or the way it looks when you write it on the blackboard?" because she doesn't believe any difference exists between the three (and she refuses to look in her book let alone to look closely at her OWN handwriting to find out).
Here I have to report one of my failures. Some years ago, that school knowing that "something's gone wrong with handwriting hereabouts" found me (just after an article on me had run in our largest local paper) and directed the teacher to have me in her classroom "to help you teach handwriting." They directed the teacher "to just please do whatever Ms. Gladstone says" ... which she did: for about two weeks ... then, she went to the principal and complained: "I can't get along with Ms. Gladstone because she is asking the same rotten questions that the kids ask. I consider it very disrespectful that she does things like convincing the kids that a 'Q' looks one way in my handwriting, another way in my wall-chart, and a third way in the book, when obviously this cannot be physically possible because a 'Q' is a 'Q' is a 'Q.' When you told me you wanted me to do what Kate said, you didn't tell me that she was going to ask me questions or want to change anything! I don't feel good about being a handwriting teacher after this, especially because the kids who listen to her the most have the clearest and fastest handwriting but it also looks the most different from real handwriting ... " ... so the principal decided that he just couldn't risk having a teacher "feel bad about being a handwriting teacher" and having to do such gosh-awful things as [GASP! HORRORS!] actually taking a look at what-she-did versus what-she-THOUGHT-she-did ... so he sent me home. I got smarmy hate-filled e-mails from her for a few weeks thereafter: the only time I responded to one, it bounced back from her spam-filter.